Should 'comfort zone' be renamed 'habit zone'?

Have you ever wondered why you keep getting the same results when you actually want to change? Do you keep repeating the same mistake or meeting the same "toxic" people?

You attract what you focus on the most in your life and if your thoughts are directed towards avoiding pain, worries, problems, etc... you will get more pain, worries, and problems.
It is often easier to stay in your so called 'comfort zone' than to step into the unknown. Saying that, how comfortable is it when it does not bring you happiness? Should it be called 'habit zone'?

There is a simple first step you can take to shift your mindset: "Focus on the end result of what you love!" (~ Darren Eden). In other words, think about what you want instead of what you do not want.

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Faith!

Worrying about something which has not yet happen means you focus your energy on negative thoughts and you might create what you do not want. Having faith, believing you will get what you love will trigger positive thoughts and emotions which are much more empowering.

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The road to success.

The road to success is not always straight, and sometimes you have to make a few pit stops or take a little detour, but as long as you focus on the destination you will get there!
Trust yourself and enjoy the journey :)

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The power of negative thoughts!

What do you hear when you listen to your thoughts? Is it empowering you, motivating you, or making you feel down?

Thoughts, whether they are positive or negative, are very powerful so they need to be chosen carefully. You would not constantly tell someone you love “You are so stupid!” or “You sound ridiculous”, or “You look ugly”. Yet, sometimes, from the moment you are awake until you go to sleep at night, you feed your own mind with negative thoughts or limiting beliefs like “I could never do that” or “I’m not good enough to have that”. You listen to this internal self-talk all day long and because persistence creates results, you achieve what you told yourself: you feel powerless and act accordingly.

I love this quote from Laird Hamilton: “Make sure your worse enemy doesn’t live between your own two ears.” This is so true, we are our worse critic and unless we change our mindset, we cannot escape. At least when someone else criticises you, you can leave the room or simply decide not to listen anymore.

So how do you change your mindset and stop the seed of negativity being planted in your mind by others? Try these 3 simple tips for a start:

  • First you need to watch the company you are keeping. Some people specialise in putting you down and if you choose to accept their comments, you are given them full power. Remember it is only their opinion as you are the only one who really knows yourself; plus it says more about who they are and their insecurities than about you.
  •  Whenever you have negative thoughts in your mind, replace them with more positive and empowering ones. For example, if you are telling yourself “I can’t do that, it is too difficult and I don’t know how”; replace these words with “It is not easy and I can’t do it yet. I’m going to learn or ask someone and then with a little practice…” You will soon get into the habit of it and it will literally change your life.
  •  Have you noticed that when negative things happen to you in the morning and you tell yourself “Great, now I’m going to have a bad day”, then this is just what happens! How about treating the event with the insignificance it probably deserves, acknowledging it, and then making a conscious decision that things from now on will be fine. Project what you actually want to happen and notice the difference in your day... Another helpful way to have better days is to be grateful. So when you go to bed at night, find at least 3 things you are grateful for in your life. I challenge you not to find anything. To start with and while your mind gets used to having more positive thoughts, choose simple ones like “I’m grateful that I had a healthy dinner tonight”, or I’m grateful that I met my friend and she cheered me up”, or “I’m grateful that I managed to replace most of my negative thoughts by positive ones”. You will be surprised how quickly you find more things to be grateful about as whatever you think of the most, you get more of.

So have a go. Try these simple tips for yourself and let me know how you get on.

There are numerous other simple techniques you can use to shift your mindset and help you live a happier and more fulfilling life. If you need some personal help, please get in touch .

I look forward to reading your thoughts and comments, and in the meantime I wish you all the best.

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Positive attracts Positive :)

"SUCCESS ATTRACTS SUCCESS AND FAILURE ATTRACTS FAILURE BECAUSE OF THE LAW OF HARMONIOUS ATTRACTION.

In physics, positives attract negatives and vice versa, but in human relationships the opposite is true. Negative people attract only other negative people, while positive thinkers attract like-minded individuals. You will find that when you begin to achieve success more successes will follow. This is the law of harmonious attraction. When riches begin to come your way, you’ll be amazed how quickly they accumulate. Train your mind to visualize yourself acquiring a specific amount of wealth or achieving a certain goal — whatever you most desire. Then use self-suggestion to persuade your subconscious mind that you can achieve your goal, and put your plan into action. When you use the tools that you have at your disposal to prepare yourself for success and visualize yourself as having already reached your objective, you can achieve any reasonable goal that you set for yourself."

~ Napoleon Hill

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Keep climbing :)

“Every person who is at the top of the mountain did not fall there from the sky. Good things come to those who work for them. You gain confidence and grow stronger by every experience in which you truly push yourself to do something you didn't think you could do.
If you are standing in that place of in-between, unable or unwilling to go backwards, but too afraid to move forward, remember that you can't enjoy the view without being willing to climb.”

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